sex question- which is more intimate to you?

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sex question- which is more intimate to you?
Posted by jenpen426
on 4/23/12 at 9:04pm
For those mom's out there who are single and dating, or who remember dating I pose this question:
When you are with someone knew, which usually happens first:
oral sex? or traditional intercourse sex?
I have a friend who's dating someone new and she's done everything but traditional sex because "it's too soon", but in my opinion (as someone who is newly on the dating scene) oral sex is more intimate to me and is usually reserved for after the regular sex.

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Posted by countrygurl1985
on 4/24/12 at 12:00am

I think everyone has a different opinion on both actually, but I agree with you in a way, I think that intercourse isnt as intimate as oral. But like I said its a persons opinion. If I were dating someone new OR just having a one night stand then I probably wouldn't go into the oral, even though it has a lot of effect on how a body works ( if you know what I mean lol). But either way anything and everything a person does with another can be intimate and not even be sexual.... Just sayin (:
Posted by FranticNewMom
on 4/25/12 at 1:17am

. intercourf is very personal. there's hugging and kissing and looking each other in the eyes with intercourse. oral sex is quick and easy. i give it to my husband when i don't feel close to him or feel like being bothered.