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Deal Breaker?
Posted by VertaBaybee
on 3/30/12 at 3:32pm
I was on the phone with my friend since high school (she doesn't have any children) and she was arguing with her boyfriend(hence why she called so I can come pick her up) and she yelled "that's why i'll never date another man with a child". I haven't told her how I feel about what she said but I will once I go pick her up. Was that messed up? Or should I not voice my concern? Because IF that was me it would be a DEAL BREAKER.

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Posted by lovemystinky
on 3/30/12 at 3:33pm (1 like)

OMFG HOW DARE THAT LITTLE BITCH!!!!!
Posted by outtamymynd
on 3/30/12 at 3:33pm

If she asks, I would say something. If not, leave it alone.
Posted by danie24
on 3/30/12 at 3:33pm

Who cares?

I would never date a man with a child. There's nothing wrong with that.
Posted by Josie.Grossie
on 3/30/12 at 3:34pm

I would not date a man with a child back when I was single. I did twice....both times they did not mention a child. One I did not ask directly and the other lied to me about it.
The one I did ask is the father fo my oldest, lol! He is actually a decent dad.
Posted by GentleGoddess
on 3/30/12 at 3:34pm

She shouldn't date a man with children. It is not worth it. She is better to get out now. I know not fair to the guy bla bla bla. And no, not saying it's the kids fault. But she needs to do what's best for her.
Posted by mandylin3
on 3/30/12 at 3:34pm

I'm sure she said it out of anger. We all say things we regret when we are angry.
Posted by GentleGoddess
on 3/30/12 at 3:35pm (1 like)

What exactly is your concern?
Posted by Iamthebestmom
on 3/30/12 at 3:35pm (2 likes)

I think its a deal breaker. People should raise their kids then have their relationship dramas. If you couldn't give the kids a two parent family to be raised in at least give them a stable one.
Posted by VertaBaybee
on 3/30/12 at 3:36pm

She always asks for my advice. So, should I tell her it was messed up she said that. I think it was.
Quoting GentleGoddess:

What exactly is your concern?
Posted by TrouserMouse
on 3/30/12 at 3:37pm

I will only date men with children. How they treat their kids, hoe responsible they are for them financially, how he talks about his kid's mother, how he gets along with her ....all can give you tons of info on who they are as a person and how. they will treat you and your kids.