• I'm considering divorcing my husband because of sexual issues...
  • Posted by Anonymous
    on 2/20/12 at 11:54am
  • My husband was great sexually/emotionally for the first years of marriage.  We have two kids and things were going well.  Then about a year ago, he started to bring up other women during sex, his co-workers, my co-workers, my friends.  He would tell me he wants to involve them all in our sex life, would want me to tell them about our sex life, get their reaction and tell him about it during sex.  He tells me how hot other women are and how he would love to see them in lingerie. He will also ask me how many men hit on me during the day and if they seem like they have a big penis.  EVERYTIME we have sex, he asks, "Who did you tell about what we do during sex?"  "How many guys hit on you today and were they hot?"  "Do you think so and so will have threesome with us?"  And this may sound pathetic, but it really hurts me and makes me awful about myself, and the other thing is, we are both 40 and the girls he talks about are 20-21.  I cant take it any longer and really want to serve him with divorce papers.  Ive confronted him and asked him to stop, and he thinks ALL guys talk like this during sex, and it's no big deal.

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