Hanging up my super mom cape for the night.

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Hanging up my super mom cape for the night.
Posted by Leelee1008
on 4/11/12 at 10:14pm
It's been a day ladies, a day I tell you! I did ALOT of house work today. Laundry was backed up, dishes went un done for days.... I had enough. I live with my grandmom, my brother also lives here. Between easter, spring break, dh's work schedule and baseball, I have been a busy busy mom. Pretty much every dish in the house was dirty, everyone wants to eat on them, but no one wants to clean them. My brother does NOTHING, no dishes, no laundry no cleaning what so ever, he leaves his clothes and dirty dishes everywhere, drives me INSANE. My grandmom defrosted our big freezer yesterday... It was BADDDDDDD! we had to toss alot of food because it needs to be defrosted atleast every other month, and it doesnt get done. I let her do her thing yesterday but it took all day long to do so I couldnt do dishes. Well I got up, totally disgusted with everything so dirty, This is what I did. I got up, threw some sweats and a not so great shirt on and threw 1 load of laundry in, because thats all the detergent we had. I went to walmart and got tp, detergent, wipes and some food. Came home, In all I did 4 loads of adult clothes and one load of baby clothes. There is still 1 to 2 loads left to do. I did about 6 sinks full of dishes, and cooked dinner, and took care of a toddler while my DH sat on his ass on the computer.... JERK FACE! Fed the family, cleaned up the dinner dishes, bathed the baby, dressed her and put her to bed. I cleaned up the kitchen some, got a shower, folded some clothes and here I am now! I am tired and wore out. Tomorrow dh has to be to work in the morning, and then my son has a Drs appt in the evening.Thank god Im having a crock pot meal tomorrow, less dishes LOL.

Replies (1-10 of 11)

Posted by mamivon2
on 4/11/12 at 10:50pm

Is there a reason why your brother acts like that.. I kicked him out a long time ago.. you shouldnt be doing all the work..
Posted by Mama032908
on 4/11/12 at 10:52pm

Omgoodness girl, I'm sorry :( Hugs!!!
Posted by DelilahsMom4108
on 4/11/12 at 10:56pm

Sorry its been so rough.
Posted by thehickinhickor
on 4/11/12 at 10:56pm

Quoting mamivon2:

Is there a reason why your brother acts like that.. I kicked him out a long time ago.. you shouldnt be doing all the work..
Posted by LifeCafe42
on 4/11/12 at 10:58pm

Wow crazy day!!! Sit down and put your feet up?
Posted by LilMissCupcake
on 4/11/12 at 11:00pm

wow that calls for a break
Posted by Leelee1008
on 4/12/12 at 11:59am

Its my grandmoms house, and she lets him do it. Trust you me, If this was my house, he would either pitch in and help out or kick rocks. I on the other hand am not that rude. I feel this way, we live here, we pitch in as well. We put basically all the food in the house, I do the majority of the cooking, and we put alot of the essentials in to help my grandmom, shampoo, soap, toilet paper, etc. He gives her his portion of the car insurance and gives her a little bit of money here and there so she can buy her cigarettes and stuff. She raised us and never gave us much responsibilities around here, so he is stuck like that, I am not.
Quoting mamivon2:

Is there a reason why your brother acts like that.. I kicked him out a long time ago.. you shouldnt be doing all the work..
Posted by Leelee1008
on 4/12/12 at 11:59am

see quote to mamivon
Quoting thehickinhickor:

Quoting mamivon2:

Is there a reason why your brother acts like that.. I kicked him out a long time ago.. you shouldnt be doing all the work..
Posted by Mrs.Pool2Be
on 4/12/12 at 12:07pm

It sounds like to me you need to give that Supermom cape to someone else in that house and let them do something and not expect it to all be on your shoulders. I would pitch a fit until someone helped me. LOL
Posted by amyjane22
on 4/12/12 at 12:09pm

Wow, you deserve a massage and some good sleep!